How to get over being dumped and turn the tables on your ex

It’s a minefield ahead.

The path you have to take in search of the answer to the question: “How to get over being dumped?” and how to get your ex back is filled with many possibilities to go wrong… FATALLY wrong!

That’s why it’s not surprising that many men who just got out of a breakup get hurt and crushed even more, and worse…it can often ruin their chances of getting their ex back fast.

Believe it or not, much of the conventional advice on how to move on and get back with your ex is ineffective, and much of the stuff that actually works is counter-intuitive and only known to a few.

You should know…because if it weren’t for these counterintuitive realizations, you wouldn’t be enjoying a loving marriage of 11 years.

So what are these steps to overcome being dumped?

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How to Get Over Being Dumped and Start Getting Your Ex Back Step 1

DO NOT… I repeat, DO NOT contact your ex yet.

Wait around a month or so. For the first few weeks after the breakup, the two of them are at an emotional high point. Regret, anger, pain, etc. both are filling.

What happens when two angry, hurt, and frustrated people talk? It’s going to be an exchange of bitter and bitter words, believe me.

How to Get Over Being Dumped and Start Getting Your Ex Back Step 2

Don’t be desperate, clingy, needy, etc. That will only send your ex running for the hills… never to return.

Forget about…

– Bombard them with text messages – Stalk them – Send bouquets of flowers – Call them 1000 times a day

Remember, no one wants a clingy, needy person in their life. Instead, see the next step…

How to Get Over Being Dumped and Start Getting Your Ex Back Step 3

Work on yourself. Change for the better. Forget about trying to change your ex’s mind as you have no control over what he or she thinks, but you do have 100% of what you think and do.

And a good way to do it is: date someone else! Dating someone else has many benefits: it increases your worth in the eyes of the opposite sex, takes your mind off the breakup, and gives you that much-needed confidence boost.