23 telltale signs your husband or wife may be cheating on you right now

“Is my partner cheating on me?”

If you are asking yourself this question, there may already be a problem.

The following is a quick guide to help you determine if your spouse or love interest is cheating on you. After reading this list, you may discover that there is an area of ​​concern. Do not confront the cheater, this will only make him clean up his act and make it more difficult for you to catch him in the act and you may not have enough evidence to make your case. I urge you to seek professional help.

Some interesting statistics on cheating husbands and wives:

o 22 percent of married men have been lost at least once during their married life.

o 14 percent of married women have had affairs at least once during their married life.

o Younger people are more likely candidates; in fact, younger women are just as likely to cheat as younger men.

o 70 percent of married women and 54 percent of married men were unaware of the extramarital activity of their spouses.

o Statistics on unfaithful spouses confirm that between 50 and 70 percent of married men (between 38 and 53 million men) have cheated or will cheat on their wives. One study found that 2/3 of the wives (26 to 36 million women) whose husbands were cheating had no idea their husbands were having an affair, largely because they didn’t recognize the telltale signs.

Most cheating wives and husbands fall into two categories. One involves an individual who is married and sees someone behind their spouse’s back. The second involves two married people having an affair; the partners of both couples are generally unaware of this deception.

Cheaters generally meet their lover at some point in their workday. In most cases, the cheater and his lover live or work in the same general area. This gives them time and opportunity to continue their reserved behavior without the threat of being discovered by their partner or coworkers. You will also find that they try to control all the information you receive about your daily whereabouts. They will deny everything unless they face hard evidence about their indiscretions.

Cheating basically involves a lot of lies. Cheats always lie about where they are, what they are doing, and how they really feel. These lies are often mixed with some truth and incorporated into all aspects of their life that they will share with you. The lies and deception can only last so long before noticeable clues start poking holes in the facade they’ve created.

Here are some proven clues or “signs” that cheating men and women show most often:

o Your partner has had a history or previous cases of infidelity. This is included in the rule “if it happened before it is likely to happen again”. Those men and women who have cheated once will generally relapse.

o Your partner has spent a lot of time lately exercising or in the tanning salon cultivating their appearance.

o Your spouse seems to act more cold or distant and inconsiderate of your feelings.

o Receive calls to hang up at home in the middle of the night or at odd times of the day.

o You start getting a lot of calls from wrong numbers at home.

o Your partner spends a lot of time talking on the phone away from you without being able to hear him.

o You walk into a room and your girlfriend or boyfriend suddenly hangs up the phone or acts strange. Your partner can also leave the house or room to talk on his cell phone.

o Your partner hides your cell phone bill from you o is very protective of the bill when it arrives in the mail.

o Your cheating boyfriend or girlfriend has secretly bought a new cell phone.

o Your partner receives suspicious voice messages.

o Discover unknown numbers stored or dialed on your partner’s cell phone.

o Your partner has recently started using calling cards.

o Your partner seems not to answer her cell phone or home in a timely manner when you try to reach her by phone during the day. If he responds, he appears to be very evasive with you and not sincere about his current whereabouts. They may tell you that they have had a cell phone problem.

o You begin to notice that your partner is lying to you about insignificant things.

o Your partner has suddenly stopped complaining about things in his relationship with you that have bothered him in the past.

o See a new cologne / perfume or sexy clothes in places like your partner’s car.

o Your partner has a secret PO box that he is hiding from you.

o Discover unfamiliar earrings or jewelry in your husband or wife’s vehicle or somewhere in your home.

o Your partner’s level of trust seems to have increased considerably for no apparent reason.

o Your partner has found reasons not to attend family or holiday gatherings.

o Your partner begins to handle your clothes independently.

o You notice new scents of cologne or perfume on your partner’s clothes.

o Your partner seems to have started acting paranoid. This can include behaviors such as your partner asking if you’ve been “sniffing around.”

Did you recognize any familiar behaviors or clues from the list? If your husband, wife, boyfriend or girlfriend is cheating on you, it is not your fault. Maybe it’s time you let a professional private investigator find out what’s really going on with your spouse or partner. You deserve to know the truth!

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