Get your ex boyfriend back and keep him loving you
You can successfully win your ex boyfriend back and really keep him. How many times have you two been apart? Too many to count?
The meetings were most likely never successful because neither of you addressed the actual issues that caused the breakup.
Couples can yell and rant at each other until someone says “It’s over!” They both go their own way for a week or two, and then they’re back in each other’s arms until the next argument, and the next, and so on.
So how is a meeting a success? How can you really live happily ever after?
A lot of that has to do with the age of the couple. The older they are both, generally, the more mature they are. Young couples have a very low success rate in staying together. They break up and reconcile several times a month. Young people have their whole lives ahead of them and shouldn’t take a relationship too seriously until they are at least in their early twenties. Before that, they have little chance of a real life togetherness.
What does it take to meet and stay together?
If you both really care about each other and have a solid year or more in this relationship, you can mend it. Being in a long-term relationship is usually a good sign that you can correct the problem you are facing. As long as you’re both mature enough to sit down and be honest with each other, you’re off to a good start!
Neither of you should accept the “it just doesn’t work” excuse. That’s not being honest. That’s the cowardly way to end things without admitting to any wrongdoing, or without wanting to get into a discussion about the problem.
If your boyfriend is being honest, he may say things like you’re not as fun as you used to be. He can’t spend time with his friends anymore and he wants to. He finds that their life together has become stale and boring. You no longer communicate. He no longer gets compliments from you. He might even tell that you’re not as hot as you used to be. OH!
The truth is, he doesn’t do anything special for you either.
So how can you fix things? First of all, since guys are very visual and get bored easily by the same thing, why not buy some sexy clothes to wear when you’re together on weekends? Dressing up during the week might be asking too much, but once in a while it would be a big surprise for him. Trust me, I would definitely enjoy it. She flirts with him again. Tell him it’s hot! After a bit of this behavior, he will sit up and take notice. Positive affirmation is always a good thing if you mean it. Don’t hand out compliments if they’re fake. The nicer you are and the more respect you show, you will get it back in return.
One thing you must do to keep your boyfriend loving you is to have confidence in yourself. Do things on your own and don’t always feel like you need to go places with your partner. Tell him that sometimes you are busy or that you already have plans of your own. This will definitely make him want to spend more time with you. Keeping yourself unavailable and a bit mysterious will sometimes keep him close.
Get your ex boyfriend back and start living life like the happy couple you always knew you could be!