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Decoding Guy Talk! Here’s how to understand what guys really mean when they say certain things.

Just as it can be frustrating for guys to understand what girls mean when they talk, girls can also face a similar problem understanding what guys mean when they talk to them.

If you’re one of those girls who wants help deciphering guys’ conversations, then you can use this information to understand what they really imply.

When she says she needs her space
This talk will originate when a guy feels that the relationship is moving too fast for his comfort. Your guy might also feel stifled by too much love from you.

You should back off a bit and give him his space, but you should also keep an eye on him to see if he’s not using that excuse to date other girls.

When he says he doesn’t like commitments
Such a guy might be afraid of getting too involved in a relationship or he might just be an immoral guy who only wants to enjoy the physical aspects of the relationship.

If you are dating such a guy, you will surely find out his true intentions in a couple of dates. You can kick the latter out while continuing to date the former for a few more dates in case your love changes his mind.

When he says that he would like you to meet his friends and family.
This would certainly indicate that your guy has fallen head over heels for you and has become confident enough to introduce you to his loved ones.

You should proceed to meet his friends and especially his family only if you are sure that he is the one for you.

When he makes excuses for not introducing you to his friends or family.
This could mean that he is embarrassed to introduce you to his friends or family, or that he thinks it is too early to introduce you.

Either way, you’ll have to hold on a bit longer to find out the real reason without scolding or scaring him.

When you ask about previous boyfriends
An insecure guy might try to swipe this query in an attempt to find out not only if you had a previous boyfriend, but he might also want to know how many. He might also want to know if you were still a virgin through this question.

You must remind him that the past should be consigned only to the past.

when he says he loves you
Such an important statement from your guy must be evaluated in the situation in which it is pronounced before jumping to conclusions.

If your guy has uttered these words in bed during a sweaty sex workout, then these words need reconfirmation during normal times. If your guy has said these words along with a thoughtful ring, card, or gift, then he really means what he says.

When he says it’s not you but him, during a break up
This indicates that he is so desperate to break up with you and feels so guilty about it that he is willing to take all the blame as long as you agree to the breakup.

Since he might realize that you’ll never speak nicely of him after the breakup, it doesn’t matter what you think is the cause of the breakup, as long as you’re out of his life.

These vital tips will help you decode guys’ conversations and understand what your own guy is trying to say when he utters them. This will help you stay one step ahead of your guy.

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